A December to Re-member

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The way you round off the year can influence your creations in the new year. You need to get out of bed on the right side so to speak.

December for me often comes too quickly, as there are still so many plans for this year not accomplished and the feeling of not being quite ready to make a new start. Also the melancholy of another year over, and time seemingly passing by more quickly every year. A sense of disappointment lingers over December. Especially this year it seems like almost no plans have come to fruition. But when I think about it now, I have been busy with much more important stuff, such as cleaning up my life, releasing and letting go of energetic excess bagage and connecting to new and old friends. More time was spent away from the computer, away from work and firmly grounded in ‘real’ life.  I have also been restoring and expanding my energy and been going through lots of energetic changes. This is all very important, perhaps even more so than working on new plans. A solid foundation is key! So I guess not all is lost. 😉 It may appear as a stalemate, but is so much progress.

Cycles

Decades of cycles are now coming around again. We get to decide if we like the choices we have made or if we want to make changes as we have too long focused on stuff that isn’t really important. The end of a year, the end of a cycle, doesn’t mean we’ve missed our time or that we have run out of opportunities to see our dreams and goals bloom into fruition. It doesn’t mean we have failed, it means that we have brand new and exciting opportunities and new energy coming in. Focus on the new chances, the doors opening and not on what has past or doors that have now been shut. There are many ways and all in Divine timing.

Full Circle

December, and especially this one may feel like we are recycling lots of old poop to be released once and for all. All those loose ends coming together. Make sure you tie a tight knot this time! And at for me personally I am in this strange state of a lot of seemingly unconnected things coming together and making perfect sense. So many synchronicities are happening all the time and the world almost seems unreal to me, like a play or a film (which is not new to me). And I believe the world is a stage, a fake reality. A temporary playground. There are just too many coincidences for it to be random. It is opening me up and I am grateful for that. Old patterns and beliefs have changed. So many cycles are now coming full circle and I hope they end here so fresh ones can begin. I am now a new me.

Take stock

This is a time to take stock of where you are at and where we would like to direct your energy for 2020. What is your vision for the new year? Be clear on what it is that you want to create. Remember, you are now not the same, your wishes and ideas, your beliefs have changed. Feel if where you are at and where you are directed are still in alignment with your Soul’s call. Take time. a step back, evaluate. Learn lessons from what has not gone favorable for you and end your year setting positive intentions and commemorating all the blessings you have received this year.

Focus on beauty

December is often a busy and stressful month for a lot of people. So many obligations and wishes, so many activities and things to round up before the year is over. Also family dynamics may be extra challenging in this month. December often has the effect of making life feel a bit chaotic and a lot of people are extra emotional and tense. Try to be selective in what you do with your time and energy this month and how you wish to regenerate and balance. Weigh your options on how truly important something is for you (not to meet other people’s expectations). Don’t get caught up in the holiday drama that is in the field right now. Focus on the beauty of this season, for instance on the time off from work to play and rest, the beautiful decorations and lights and the fun social gatherings (only if they are truly joyful for you ofcourse). Avoid getting into the social pressure to buy lots of stuff. Be creative with your time, energy and gifts, give from your heart and that does not have to be bought in a shop. Do what feel right for you. Remember the biggest gift is you! And if that means plopping down on the couch wearing your pyjamas at Christmas, then please do that! Be loving to yourself, that is what will make the new year change for the better for all of us. If we would all be more kind to ourselves, more forgiving, this world would be a different place, of different energy. If you don’t feel like partying and being merry, than please don’t. Seek balance. A bit of holiday stress has never hurt anyone, but don’t let it distract your energy from your intentions of holding yourself in the highest light possible.