Aha
I visited a Health & Healing Conference this weekend and listening to speakers and speaking to people there I had some aha-moments. I was there by myself and my first day away from a computer and phone, no searching the net for Cancer cures and emails to my mother to support and inform here about what I found. The energy at the conference was high and the groupmeditations and soundhealings there really quieted my thinking mind and opened my heart for some great insights. No more controling, no more thinking, I opened my heart and I heard the Angels whisper in my ear (well they were actually speaking quite loudly and I had heard them before, but sort of ignored them in my survival mode of keeping my mind and body occupied). Now I listened deeply and was open to their wisdom. Stop, step back, allow and accept! Let my mother walk her own path, grant her this.
Stop preaching
Your lifemask first
Not losing yourself is so important in stressful times like these. Take care of yourself first, like the often used metaphore, in an airplane you put on your lifemask first before helping others. It is okay to suggest options, but don’t push other people and try and let go and give them the power to figure it out for themselves, as it is their path, not yours and what works for you may not be right for someone else. Respect that. Respect yourself and respect others. I myself totally let myself drain my energy in the past weeks. Kept on reading, travelling to my mother for visits to the hospital, kept on working, running, focussing on my mother totally and not myself. Trying not to feel, pushing away pain, trying to be hopeful and collected. Escaping in the busyness. And yes ofcourse I started having migraines again (the only way for my body to stop me and make me go to bed). I should know by now (and that makes me feel a bit “stupid”) as I am conscious of the fact that I am doing this, this running away from my feelings and tryin to safe the world, but this situation is so severe that I sort of told myself it is okay this time to forget myself, to neglect my self care and self compassion. To ignore Angelic help and inspiration. WRONG! Lesson learned. Woken up and course correcting right now. Also writing this down here, sharing, helps me commit and remember that I am taking a step back. And just going to be here, support, but not push and steer. I AM HERE. Fully and in my centre. Calm. And loving. And Divinely guided. I will pray and do healings and send light and joy and I have faith and compassion. And I trust that this is the way it is supposed to be in the greater scheme of things.
Acceptance and allowance
Everything in life is all about acceptance. also dis-ease, especially disease. It has a reason for showing up. Accept what is, don’t fight it. Accept how it is right now and work with that, but from a place of trust and love, not fear. Fear will only feed the situation to spiral downwards and confirm everything you are afraid of. Focus on positive outcomes and possibilities. Focus on your abilities and not be overridden by your failures. Show your best and thrive. Focus and build upon your achievements, talents and unique selves. There are different lessons for different archetypes in situations like this, I myself need to be mindful not to try and control situations by pushing my ideas and clarity on others. Pull back not to overwhelm (even though this enthousiasm comes from great love and all the best intentions). Step back and allow others to figure things out, make their mistakes and hopefully shine and discover their own powers and greatness. Encouraging others to work things out makes them feel more capable and intelligent. We need to allow others the space to ask for our help when they want and need it, this is far more empowering.
Stand in your own power
For my mother it is now important to stand in her own power and believe in her own healing capabilities. We as people need to stop leaning on eachother and stand in our own power, equally next to eachother. You see, that what you like in others, is that thing you have lost along the way and you still yearn for. For example if you admire someone for their positivity, this is a quality you have probably let go off at some point in your life and you really want to retrieve. Often though instead of retrieving this ourselves we form relationships with people with that trait to fill this gap in us, we start leaning on others. We become dependent. So think of what you admire in others and claim back these traits for yourself. Cultivate them.
And also when you have a disease or something you don’t want in your life, you need to disconnect from it’s morphogenetic field. Everything is light and information and we are all connected to eachother by this field, so everytime you use the word Cancer for instance you connect to that field and reinforce your order to the Universe to show this in your reality. This is a hard thing to do, but try and not focus on the disease all the time and give it another name when you speak of it. Make a deal with people around you and doctors to give Cancer another name, one that doesn’t connect to the field. Disconnect from it. Think of yourself as whole and perfect just as is. Again you write your story and you have the power. Believe and trust.
Cancer as a teacher
Biggest message all of this is now bringing me and I hope others in this situation as well is don’t listen to fear, start living and live from love. Don’t hope but have faith. Stand in your power and Choose Love and PLAY in JOY. Laughter and fun is so important for your immunesystem!!! SO KEEP LAUGHING!!! Do things that make you happy and make you laugh until your tummy hurts.
None of us knows how many more days we have in this Earth body in this lifetime, so let’s not wait and be here now.
Live Now.
Love Now.
I love you.
XX Charissa
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